Did you placed a child for adoption years ago and are still carrying unprocessed emotions… if reunion feels complicated or overwhelming… if you’re struggling with the relationship dynamics… you’re not alone.
Many birth mothers carry their adoption experience in silence, believing they should just “move on” or “be grateful.” But these unresolved feelings don’t disappear with time—they impact your relationships, your peace of mind, and your ability to fully embrace your life today.
Welcome to Birth Moms Today.
We are women who placed a child for adoption.
Women who made the best choice for the life of their child under the circumstances.
Women from all different backgrounds— UNITED by ONE similar Experience – ADOPTION.
We Have a VOICE— Even if we struggle to express ourselves. We Have NEEDS— Even if we are still figuring out what they are.
We Have POWER— Even if we are learning the best ways to use it.
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We are BIRTH MOMS TODAY.
And today, you can finally step into the acceptance, self-forgiveness, and empowerment you deserve.
Imagine:
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- Finally accepting your adoption decision without shame or guilt
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- Forgiving yourself and releasing years of self-blame
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- Feeling empowered and in control of your relationships—including with your placed child
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- Moving through the world with confidence instead of carrying invisible wounds
I’m Kim Noeth, an adoption-attuned coach and birth mom who understands this journey firsthand. I’ve guided dozens of women from self-doubt and relationship confusion to self-acceptance and empowered connection.
And today, you can finally step into the acceptance, self-forgiveness, and empowerment you deserve.
Imagine:
- Finally accepting your adoption decision without shame or guilt
- Forgiving yourself and releasing years of self-blame
- Feeling empowered and in control of your relationships—including with your placed child
- Moving through the world with confidence instead of carrying invisible wounds
You don’t have to carry this burden alone anymore.
Whether you’re newly reunited, struggling with ongoing relationship dynamics, or just ready to finally forgive yourself and reclaim your power, transformation is possible.
Ready to step into acceptance and empowerment?
We are
BIRTH MOMS TODAY.
My Birth Son is Rude to Me
Dear Birthmother, My son came back, after 26 years. He has been back in our lives for 3 years. We struggle because we think he is a narcissist. On top of that he has been extremely rude to me. One struggle is what to do when your child comes...
My Birth Mom Was a Strong Woman
Dear Birthmother, Hey there, I’m not a birth mom but I hope you don’t mind my writing. My birth mother gave me up for adoption when she was in her early twenties and out of options. It took her years to deal with losing me, and she never had another daughter. 20 years...
My Birth Mom Did Something That Helped Me and Her
Dear Birth Mom, I just wanted you to know about my story of me being adopted when I was first born. There is no greater love then I have for my birth mother because she did something that helped me and her… ,well, live is the best why to put it. My adoption was open...








